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‘Relationship Expert’ Wants Parents To Get Baby’s Consent Before Changing A Nappy
If there is one certainty in life, it’s that people have opinions. Some will even strive to voice those opinions as loudly as possible, even if only a few people are listening.
The internet has made it incredibly easy for anyone to express their opinion and broadcast it to the world. Interestingly, the more peculiar the opinion, the more attention it tends to garner.
One expert is currently stirring up controversy due to their unconventional suggestion for parents. As a self-proclaimed relationship expert, they propose that parents should seek permission before changing a diaper.
In today’s climate, conversations around consent are widespread and complex. However, for many parents, the idea of requesting a baby’s permission before changing a soiled diaper seems impractical.
Let’s face it: most parents aren’t thrilled about the task of changing diapers, but they recognize it as a necessary part of raising healthy and happy children. Adding the additional step of seeking permission beforehand seems excessive to many.
The advocate behind this recommendation is Deanne Carson, a self-described “sexuality educator, speaker, and author.” Her proposition has sparked significant debate and discussion among parents and caregivers alike.
<blockquote class=”twitter-tweet”><p lang=”en” dir=”ltr”>'Sexuality expert' says parents should ask for baby's consent when changing nappies.<br><br>Yes, really… <a href=”https://t.co/iR6wUfP87i”>pic.twitter.com/iR6wUfP87i</a></p>— Sunrise (@sunriseon7) <a href=”https://twitter.com/sunriseon7/status/994684061892296704?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw”>May 10, 2018</a></blockquote> <script async src=”https://platform.twitter.com/widgets.js” charset=”utf-8″></script>
In 2018, Deanne Carson appeared on ABC to discuss her perspective on introducing consent at an early age. While traditionally associated with children above the age of three, Carson advocates for incorporating consent awareness from a younger age.
Acknowledging that babies cannot verbally respond to consent requests, Carson suggests that they may communicate nonverbally, such as through eye contact or other cues. She emphasizes the importance of establishing a culture of consent within the family by asking if it’s okay to change a diaper before proceeding.
Carson elaborated on the process, highlighting the value of allowing a moment for anticipation and observing nonverbal cues, which she believes fosters deeper communication between parents and toddlers.
Reporters reacted strongly to Carson’s suggestion, expressing verbal surprise and curiosity about what might occur if a baby were to express a refusal.
<blockquote class=”twitter-tweet”><p lang=”en” dir=”ltr”>'Sexuality expert' says parents should ask for baby's consent when changing nappies.<br><br>Yes, really… <a href=”https://t.co/iR6wUfP87i”>pic.twitter.com/iR6wUfP87i</a></p>— Sunrise (@sunriseon7) <a href=”https://twitter.com/sunriseon7/status/994684061892296704?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw”>May 10, 2018</a></blockquote> <script async src=”https://platform.twitter.com/widgets.js” charset=”utf-8″></script>
<blockquote class=”twitter-tweet”><p lang=”en” dir=”ltr”>'Sexuality expert' says parents should ask for baby's consent when changing nappies.<br><br>Yes, really… <a href=”https://t.co/iR6wUfP87i”>pic.twitter.com/iR6wUfP87i</a></p>— Sunrise (@sunriseon7) <a href=”https://twitter.com/sunriseon7/status/994684061892296704?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw”>May 10, 2018</a></blockquote> <script async src=”https://platform.twitter.com/widgets.js” charset=”utf-8″></script>
<blockquote class=”twitter-tweet”><p lang=”en” dir=”ltr”>'Sexuality expert' says parents should ask for baby's consent when changing nappies.<br><br>Yes, really… <a href=”https://t.co/iR6wUfP87i”>pic.twitter.com/iR6wUfP87i</a></p>— Sunrise (@sunriseon7) <a href=”https://twitter.com/sunriseon7/status/994684061892296704?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw”>May 10, 2018</a></blockquote> <script async src=”https://platform.twitter.com/widgets.js” charset=”utf-8″></script>